This is me.

So apparently I have decided to start writing. I’m going to prattle through my daily life, things that rattle in my head, things that make me laugh, cry, scream, things about my boys, living with a zoo keeper, depression, anxiety and all that comes with it.

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18 months to heal, 18 months to deal, 18 months to learn, 18 months to delve, 18 months to grow, 18 months of counselling.

This Friday just gone, I had counselling. I have counselling every month, just once a month its been for a while now, sometimes I see her more frequently but generally it's once a month. But anyway on this Friday just gone, it stopped! We have been talking for a while about the end of our... Continue Reading →

How to love a Highly Sensitive Person, like me.

I am a highly sensitive person, a highly sensitive introvert in fact. I am not going to lie sometimes it makes being in the 'real' world pretty difficult. It must be even harder to love someone who is highly sensitive, let alone a highly sensitive introvert with depression and anxiety.

Losing Balance

There are times as a mental ill health sufferer that you think you have it sorted when all is going well. You are working, being mum/dad, cleaner, cook, lover, nurse, friend. Then you realise, usually later than is necessary, that actually the balance is all wrong. You get so busy being well you forget how... Continue Reading →

What is the right level of emotion?

What is the right level of emotion you should feel? I’ve had two weddings this year within a few months of each other and my emotional response has been completely different and it has left me wondering what is the correct response. So both friends are uni friends, very close friends and they were my... Continue Reading →

Closing one door…

"My mindset could have gone in one of two ways. It could have gone down a really negative route but thankfully I think this week has been a positive one". 

My Haberdashery Brain

My counsellor advised that I need a space to be creative in, I need a space that is just mine that no one else can invade, that is sacred to me. A space where I can be Sara-Jane and express my creative personality. I need it to recharge, to be me. This is my creative... Continue Reading →

Being a Proper Adult

Adulting is hard, we know this, but having to do proper adulting is something else!! It all started when my darling husband developed man flu after getting drowning wet working on some animal enclosure or something zooie outside in the rain all day. He had a high temperature that night but I didn't take much... Continue Reading →

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